Phupha ubaba ongasekho ingaba nezincazelo eziningana ezihlukene, ikakhulukazi uma ukufa bekusanda kwenzeka.
Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amaphupho adlulisela imizwa nokwesaba kwethu ngendlela ecashile, kodwa kuneminye imibono mayelana nawo.
Enye iwukuthi abathandekayo bethu basebenzisa amaphupho ukuze bazame ukuxhumana nathi.
Ngezinye izikhathi basebenzisa le ndlela yokuxhumana ukuze sehlise umoya, basicele ukuba sibasize noma bamane baphuthelwe ukuba seceleni kwethu.
Lezi zincazelo ziheha abantu abaningi, kodwa sizozicacisa kulesi sihloko.
Sizobonisa incazelo “evamile” yokuphupha ubaba oshonile kanye nencazelo “engaqondakali,” okungukuthi, leyo yokuxhumana nabafile.
Uma ukholelwa ukuthi othandekayo wakho uzama ukuxhumana nawe, ungaqiniseka ukuthi uzothola impendulo kulesi sihloko.
Sikubonisa incazelo evamile yamaphupho kanye nencazelo engaqondakali kulabo abakholelwa ukuthi abafileyo bangase bazame ukuxhumana nathi ngamaphupho.
Ngikholwe, incazelo efana nalena ngeke uyithole kwenye indawo.
Bheka konke odinga ukukwazi ngezansi!
Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ubaba ongasekho
Ngaphambi kokuthi ngikutshele ngokuqinisekile ukuthi incazelo yephupho lakho ithini, udinga ukukhumbula imininingwane yalo.
Leli phupho lijwayelekile...
Akukwazi ukucacisa incazelo yalo ngale ndlela ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi ubaba wayenzani...
Udinga ukucabanga...
Ngabe uyihlo wayephila ephusheni? Ubumamatheka? Ukukhala? Noma ubekhuluma nawe nje?
Uma ukwazi ukukhumbula le mininingwane, kulula ukubona incazelo.
Siwabeke kahle ngezansi, hlola konke odinga ukukwazi manje!
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ephila
Leli phupho lingelinye lajwayeleke ukubakhona abantu uma beshonelwe.
Leli phupho alihlotshaniswa nanoma yimuphi umlayezo othandekayo afuna ukukudlulisela kuwe, lisho into eyodwa kuphela… Ngiyakukhumbula!
Eqinisweni, awukaze ukhohlwe ukushona kukababa wakho futhi lokho kukushiya nokulangazelela okukhulu esifubeni sakho.
Lezi zifiso zakha imicabango ephindaphindayo ngaphakathi kwekhanda lakho ongenakwenzeka ukuyilawula futhi ibonakala ngamaphupho.
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ephila nakho kudlulisa ukuhlukumezeka okuncane okwasala ekhanda lakho.
Ungakhathazeki, kungokwemvelo ngokuphelele ukudala ukuhlukumezeka kwekhanda ngezikhathi ezinzima, ikakhulukazi ngokufa.
Singancoma kuphela ukuthi uzame ukunqoba konke lokhu.
Ungakhohlwa ngoba siyazi ukuthi akwenzeki neze, vele uzame ukuqhubeka ucabange ukuthi ubaba wakho usendaweni engcono manje.
Sonke sigcina ngokufa, kuvele kwenzeke ngezikhathi ezahlukene kithina sonke, khumbula ukuthi lesi yisigameko esingokwemvelo empilweni.
Uma uyihlo emamatheka ephusheni, incazelo ishintsha ngokuphelele... Asiqhubeke nokuchaza...
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona emamatheka
Kunezincazelo ezimbili ezingenzeka lapha!
Enye yazo yayihlobene nencazelo yamaphupho kanti enye yayihlobene nokusebenzelana nemimoya nesigijimi sabafileyo kwabaphilayo.
Ake siqale ngencazelo evamile yamaphupho.
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona emamatheka kusho ukuthi kuzokwenzeka okuhle empilweni yakho.
Ukumamatheka kuyinto enhle, into enhle eyenzeka kuphela uma kunezinto ezinhle futhi emaphusheni kusho lokho.
Kuzoba khona izinguquko ezithile empilweni yakho ezizoba yinhle ngokwedlulele futhi ezizokujabulisa kakhulu.
Akunakwenzeka ukucacisa ukuthi lezi zinguquko zizoba yini, kungenzeka kuphela ukwazi ukuthi zizoba zinhle futhi leli phupho liwubufakazi balokho.
Lena enye yezincazelo, kodwa kukhona labo abakholelwa ithiyori ehluke ngokuphelele!
Kukhona abakholelwa ukuthi ukuphupha ubaba osewashona emamatheka kusho lokho ubaba uzama ukudlulisa umlayezo ezinganeni.
Lo mlayezo uhlobene nokuphila kahle futhi ngokuvamile ukwenzeka lapho izingane zingayeki ukucabanga ngabazali bazo abangasekho.
Kulokhu kusho ukuthi ubaba wakho uzama ukukutshela ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle kuye, ukuthi ulungile lapho ekhona futhi udinga ukuyeka naye ngosizi.
Uma umkhumbula, ungagcini nje ngokukhumbula ukufa kwakhe, khumbula izikhathi ezimnandi ezichithe eduze kwakhe.
Uyihlo ukutshela ukuthi uyaphila futhi ujabule.
Yehlisa umoya, wamukele ukuhamba kwakhe ukholwe ukuthi uyaphila, yilapho-ke uyokwazi ukuqhubeka nokuphila impilo yakho ejabulisayo.
Phupha ubaba oshone ekhala
Leli elinye lamaphupho agqamayo asabisa kakhulu abantu futhi lingaba nezincazelo ezimbili ezahlukene.
Enye yalezi zincazelo exhumene nezwe lamaphupho nenye exhumene nezwe labafileyo.
Phupha ubaba oshone ekhala kuwuphawu lokuthi kuzoba nokuhlehla okungekuhle empilweni yakho.
Lokhu kubuyisela emuva kungaba inkinga enkulu ezokwenza ukuthi uhlupheke.
Ukubona ubaba wakho ekhala kusho ukuhlupheka azokuzwa ngalezi zinkinga.
Qaphela ukuthi leliphupho alisho ukuthi lento izomataniswa noyihlo noma ukufa kwakhe.
Njengasephusheni langaphambilini, akunakwenzeka ukunquma ukuthi yisiphi isenzakalo esibi lokhu kuzoba.
Singancoma kuphela ukuthi uhlale uqinile ukuze ubhekane nazo zonke lezi zinselele.
Lena enye yezincazelo...
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ekhala kungasho okunye...
Kukhona abakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthi ubaba wakho uzama ukuveza ukungajabuli ngempilo yakho.
Ngokujwayelekile ubaba wakho kungenzeka ukuthi ukhala emaphusheni ngenxa yeshwa lakhe lokumbona ehamba.
Lapho indodana idabukile, ubaba naye udabukile ngoba ihlushwa ukuhlupheka kwayo.
Kulokhu, ubaba wakho ekubona usezinhlungwini futhi uyamqeda nya.
Le ncazelo inengqondo kubantu abaningi futhi kukhona labo abakholelwa kuyo ngokweqiniso.
Uma ukukholelwa lokhu, okumele ukwenze nje ukuzama ukuthuthukisa impilo yakho futhi uzame ukujabula ngaphandle kokuba khona kukayihlo.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ekhala kuwuphawu olubi, kodwa ungalisebenzisa kahle.
Yisebenzise ukuze uthuthukise impilo yakho, uphinde ujabule, ngokuba khona noma ngaphandle kothandiweyo wakho.
Uyihlo ufuna ujabule, kunjalo nje.
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ephinde efa
Leli elinye lamaphupho anencazelo eyodwa kuphela futhi kulula ngendlela emangalisayo ukulichaza.
Kuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukumezeka okukhulu ekhanda lakho.
Lokhu kuhlukumezeka kudalwe ukushona kukababa wakho kanti namanje awukakadluli.
Empeleni, ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ephinde washona kusho ukuthi akakayitholi indaba yokushona kukayise futhi cishe ngeke akwazi ukukuxazulula ngokushesha.
Ukufa kuyinto enzima kakhulu ukubhekana nayo, ikakhulukazi evela kumzali, futhi ubhekene nobunzima ngalokho.
Akunakwenzeka ukulawula noma ukumisa lawa maphupho ngokuzithandela.
Kusele kuwena ukuthi uphile impilo yakho uzame ukunqoba yonke into ekubambezelayo.
Kulapho kuphela lapho uyokwazi khona ukuyeka ukuba naleli phupho futhi ujabule ngempela.
Ukuphupha ubaba osewashona ephinde efa kubuhlungu kakhulu, uma ufuna usizo mayelana nalokhu, sincoma ukuthi uthandaze uhlobo oluthile lomthandazo ovela kubhulogi lethu, kungaba indlela yokukusiza.
Kubi ngempela ukuphupha ubaba ongasekho?
Ingabe lawa maphupho amabi ngempela?
Ingabe kubonisa ukuthi ngeke ujabule kakhulu? Noma ingabe ziyizingozi nje ezingenanjongo ekuphileni kwethu?
Njengoba kungenzeka usubonile, iphupho ngalinye liyiphupho futhi ngalinye linencazelo ehluke ngokuphelele.
Imvamisa leliphupho alibi lisho ukuthi ucabanga kakhulu ngokushona kukababa wakho kanti namanje awukaqedi.
Okuwukuphela kwento embi engase yenzeke ngemva kwakhe ukuhlukumezeka okungenakuphulukiswa.
Hlaziya yonke imininingwane yephupho lakho futhi uhlole izincazelo ezifanele kulesi sihloko.
Yenza esikuncomayo futhi uzame ukukuqeda unomphela lokhu kufa.
Umuntu akasoze akhohlwa ukuthi ukufa kuyinto engokwemvelo ekuphileni futhi akekho okwazi ukuyilawula.
Amaphupho engeziwe:
Phupha ubaba ongasekho ingaba nezinkulungwane zezincazelo ezahlukene.
Manje kukuwe ukuthi uhlole yonke imininingwane yaleli phupho nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ukuze uliqedele unomphela.
Uma kukhona noma yiliphi iphupho obunalo elingekho kulesi sihloko, ungangabazi ukuphawula.
Ngizojabula kakhulu ukuchaza ukuthi kusho ukuthini ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka!