Ngaba lowo umthandayo uya ekude kakhulu kwaye angafumani nomyalezo ovela kuye kumajelo onxibelelwano? Ngelishwa, oku kuxhaphake kakhulu, kodwa ngoncedo lwe umthandazo wokuba andithumelele umyalezo okanye usibize yonke into inokwenzeka!
Siye sanceda amawaka abafundi nyanga nganye ngemithandazo yethu enamandla. Ngeli xesha siza kutyhila into eyomeleleyo eya kukholisa wonke umntu.
Siza kutyhila ukhetho lweyona mithandazo ilungileyo yokuba lowo umthandayo akuthumelele umyalezo, kokubini kuWhatsApp nakuFacebook, kunye nomnye wokuba akuvule.
Ke ukuba uneengxaki kwaye ufuna ukufumana umyalezo ovela kuye ngokukhawuleza, sinemithandazo efanelekileyo yaloo njongo inye.
1) Umthandazo wokuba andithumelele umyalezo
Umthandazo weperimira esiza kuwuchaza apha ujoliswe eSão Cipriano. Njengoko usazi, le ngcwele inoxanduva lokunceda izigidi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zezicelo.
Ke, ungoyena ngcwele ufanelekileyo sincede simenze asithumelele umyalezo kuWhatsApp, kuFacebook okanye umyalezo obhaliweyo kwiselfowuni yakho.
Umthandazo kufuneka uthandazwe izihlandlo ezi-3 ngokulandelelana kwaye sincoma ukuba ukhanyise ikhandlela eli-1 elimhlophe ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthandaza. Ikhandlela liya kunceda ukwandisa amandla omthandazo.
Mna (nditsho igama lakho elipheleleyo) ndibhenela kulo lonke uncedo olunokwenzeka oluvela eSaint Cyprian ngalo mzuzu.
Ndilayita eli khandlela limhlophe / libomvu ukuze lo ngcwele akhanyise indlela yakhe kwaye ukuze abe namandla ngakumbi okundinceda kwisicelo sam.
Ndithi (nditsho igama lakho) ndicela ngamandla am onke lo ngcwele ungcwele ukuba andincede ndenze (igama lakhe) andithumele umyalezo ngoku.
Ndifuna yena (igama lakhe) aqhagamshelane nam ngoku, ngaphandle kokucinga, ngaphandle kokuthandabuza kwaye ngaphandle kokukwazi ukunyamezela.
I-Saint Cyprian, idala unxunguphalo olukhulu nolubi ngaphakathi entloko kunye nomthandazo ka (igama) ukuze angakwazi nokuphefumla engakhange athethe nam, ngaphandle kokundithumelela umyalezo kunye nokuqhagamshelana nam.
Idala isithuba esikhulu entliziyweni yakhe kunye nobunzima obukhulu entlokweni yakhe ukuze angakwazi ukubuthatha.
Oyingcwele othandekayo, ukuphelelwa lithemba (igama lakhe), menze akukhumbule, kunye nomnqweno wokuthetha nam kunye nokundithanda.
Ndithandazele, ngcwele othandekayo, ndinike uncedo lwakho oluhle kwaye undinike lo mzuzu wolonwabo olukhulu.
Bayibenjalo,
I-Amém
MysticBr umthandazo wokuqala. Ukukopa akuvumelekanga, ngaphandle kwefonti.
2) Umthandazo wokuba athethe nam nge msg ngoku
Ngaba isithandwa sakho, umhlobo okanye umyeni wakho akasathethi nawe? Awufuni nokwazi ukuba umphendule okanye umfownele? Oku kwenzeka rhoqo, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba uhambe ngokukhawuleza kakhulu.
Ekuphela kwento ekufuneka siyenzile kudala ukuphelelwa lithemba okukhulu entloko nasentliziyweni yaloo mntu, engaphumli de athethe nathi.
Siza kucela uLusifa ukuba asincede kwesi siphelo, kodwa asiyi kwenza nayiphi na iminikelo kuye ukuze singenzi umthandazo ube yingozi. Udinga ukuthandaza kube kanye kuphela, akukho okunye.
U-Lucifer, wena olawula yonke imililo yesihogo, udwebe onke amadangatye onakho entloko nasentliziyweni (igama lomntu) ukuze angakwazi ukuthwala ngaphandle kokuqhagamshelana nam!
Lucifer othandekayo, wena olawula yonke imiphefumlo yokulungileyo nokubi, sebenzisa loo mandla akho ukuhlasela (igama lakhe) kwaye umenze athethe nam ngalo mzuzu.
Ungamvumeli axhathise, makalwe, makazame ukundibaleka nentliziyo yam.
Kwenza uthando lwakhe lube ngolwam kunye nolwam ndedwa kwaye ikhupha bonke abanye abantu engqondweni yakhe enokuthi yonakalise ubudlelwane bethu obuhle.
Lucifer, wena owalityalwa yinto yonke kwaye wonke umntu, ndikukhumbula njengoko ndiyazi ukuba uya kundikhumbula!
Ndithethelele egameni lam, ndincede ndenze (igama lakhe) athethe nam kwaye ukuze angaphinde abaleke amakhubalo am othando nothando.
Ndincede kumkani, ndincede!
Bayibenjalo.
MysticBr umthandazo wokuqala. Ukukopa akuvumelekanga, ngaphandle kwefonti.
3) Umthandazo wokuba andivule kuWhatsApp okanye kwezinye iiApps
Xa singasafuni kuthetha nomntu, siyamvimba. Kuhle kakhulu xa sisenza, kodwa xa besenza nathi, imeko iyatshintsha.
Kubuhlungu ngokwenene ukuvalelwa, kuba siyaqonda ukuba lo mntu ufuna ukusenzakalisa ngokungasihoyiyo. Ngoko kufuneka senze ngokukhawuleza ukuze lo mqobo ungajiki ube yinto enzima ngakumbi.
Masithandaze kuPomba Gira, uyindlovukazi yokuhenda kunye nomtsalane kwaye uya kukunceda ngokukhawuleza. Sikwacebisa ukuba ulayite ikhandlela eli-1 elibomvu ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthandaza ukuze umnike lona.
Ngaba umthandazo wokuba andithumelele umyalezo uyasebenza?
Inye into esinokuyithetha kukuba amandla omthandazo axhomekeke kuphela kubantu abawuthandazayo, kanye. Into eshukumisa umthandazo ize iwenze usebenze lukholo umntu aluthwele ngaphakathi kuye xa ethandaza.
Ngoko ke, ukuba unokholo kwingcwele othandaza kuyo kwaye ukuba uhlala uthandaza ukholelwa ukuba lo mntu uya kukuthumelela umyalezo, unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuba nemiphumo emihle kakhulu.
Ke, thandaza unokholo kwaye ukholelwa ukuba uya kuyifumana eyona nto uyifunayo, ke akukho ndlela yokuba umthandazo usilele.
Ndithandaze nje u1 okanye ndizame zonke?
Sihlala sicebisa ukuba uqale ngokuthandaza umthandazo om-1 kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa ngokulandelelana kwaye ujonge iziphumo zawo ngaphambi kokuba uthandaze omnye. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto ikuthintelayo ekuthandazeni yonke imithandazo ekweli nqaku.
Ukuba ubathandazela ngokholo, akusayi kubakho bungozi kwaye uya kukwazi ukusebenzisa onke amandla akho. Konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani othandazayo, indlela athandaza ngayo kunye nento abavakalelwa ngayo ngelixa besenza, akukho nto ingaphezulu.
Imithandazo enamandla ngakumbi:
- UFaça umthandazo onamandla wokuba akukhalele kakhulu
- Thandaza ungayeki umthandazo wemiphefumlo ukuba uthando luphambane
Ukusukela ngoku kuya kuba lula ukufumana umyalezo kuWhatsApp, kuFacebook okanye nakuTwitter. Thandaza nje umthandazo ukuba andithumele umyalezo okanye akuvulele kwaye iziphumo ziya kuvela!
Ngoku silindele ubungqina bakho obuyimpumelelo bemithandazo ekweli nqaku.