Fumana ukuba kuthetha ukuthini phupha ukuba uyajola umntu? Nokuba loo mntu ngumntu ongamaziyo, ngumhlobo okanye lilungu lentsapho?
Eli nqaku likulungele kakhulu!
Sagqiba ekubeni siqokelele iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zamaphupha kunye nabafana kwaye sikucacisele nganye nganye.
Uhlala uphupha ngayo kwaye ungoyika kwaye ucinge okubi, kodwa ayisoloko ithetha kakubi.
Ngamanye amaxesha, into embi ayinakuphepheka, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzilungiselele ukuze iindaba ezimbi zingaweli ngendlela embi kakhulu.
Ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, masiqhubele phambili kweli nqaku.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha uthandana
Le ntsingiselo iya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kumntu othandana naye.
Masiqale ngokuchaza ngendlela eqhelekileyo kwaye emva koko sichaze ngokweenkcukacha.
Kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuhoywa, uthando kunye nothando oluvela komnye umntu kwaye awuyifumani.
Usenokuba awuyiqondi khumbula olu thando, kodwa inyaniso kukuba i-subconscious yakho sele ivile kwaye sele ikubonisa yona.
Ukuba sele ukwi relationship iqabane lakho alikugqibi.
Unokucinga ukuba wonwabile, kodwa eneneni kukho into engekhoyo kubudlelwane bakho ongenakubonakala uyiyeka.
Intsingiselo echanekileyo yeli phupha iya kuxhomekeka kumntu ophuphe ngaye, kodwa siza kukubonisa ngokweenkcukacha intsingiselo yephupha nangaphantsi.
Ukuphupha uthandana nomntu ongamaziyo
Eli phupha alithethi ncam ukuba ufuna ukuthandana nomntu ongamaziyo, akukho nanye kulo...
ithetha ukuba kukho umntu onomdla kuwe, kodwa awukamqondi ukuba ungubani kanye kanye.
Ngumntu osondeleyo, mhlawumbi umhlobo osondeleyo kakhulu, kodwa loo mntu akazange akwazi ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo zokwenyani kuwe.
Lamntu ungaziwayo uthandana naye emaphupheni uzoziveza kungekudala kwaye uyasithanda esi sityhilelo, uzomthanda lomntu, kwaye ngubani owaziyo ukuba uya kujola naye.
Jonga ukuba ngubani ohlala ehamba nawe, ubone ukuba ngubani okuthandayo, ubone ukuba ngubani ozama ukusondela kuwe nanini na xa ekwazi kwaye uya kuyifumana lula le ndoda ingaqondakaliyo.
Ngoku ukuba ukhe wambona lo mntu kwaye ungumhlobo unentsingiselo eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ...
Bona ngezantsi!
Phupha ngokuthandana nomhlobo
Usenokukufumanisa kungaqhelekanga, kodwa inyaniso kukuba ukuphupha uthandana nomhlobo kuxhaphake kakhulu yaye akunantsingiselo engaqondakaliyo emva koko!
Akuthethi nto kwaye akukho nto ingaphantsi komtsalane omkhulu oyimfihlo onayo kulo mhlobo.
Unobuhlobo obukhulu nalo mntu, kodwa ngokwenene uyazi ukuba ufuna ngaphezu kobuhlobo nje.
I-subconscious yethu isibonisa iminqweno yethu kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba umnqweno wakho kukuthandana nalo mhlobo, ukumanga, ukuba naye kwaye uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye naye.
Cinga kakhulu ngalo mhlobo, ucinge nzulu ukuba awufuni nto inamandla naye kwaye ubone ukuba iphupha lakho lilungile na okanye hayi.
Intloko yethu ifuna izinto ezininzi, kodwa xa iphupha ngazo, kungenxa yokuba lo mnqweno uyinyaniso ngokwenene.
Ukuba sele nithandana, kungenxa yokuba ulwalamano lwenu alukonelisi kwaye mhlawumbi kungcono ukukhangela enye indlela.
Lumka nje, musa ukuphelisa naluphi na ubudlelwane ngaphandle kokuqala uqiniseke ukuba ufuna ukuyenza.
Ukuphupha uthandana nomntu omthandayo
Eli phupha lelinye lawona alula ehlabathini kwaye intsingiselo yalo iphambi kwamehlo akhe wonke umntu!
Ayinantsingiselo engaqondakaliyo okanye engaqondakaliyo...
Ngokwenene yonke into malunga neengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho!
Ukuphupha uthandana nomntu omthandayo kuthetha a uthando olukhulu kunye nothando lokwenene kuloo mntu.
Kuthetha ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuba nobudlelwane obunzulu nalo mntu kwaye uzimisele ukwenza nantoni na ukuze kwenzeke.
La maphupha aluphawu lothando lokwenyani, uthando ekufuneka silwe nalo.
Ungalihoyi eli phupha kuba lidlulela kuwe ukuba kufuneka umlwele lo mntu, kufuneka ubonise iimvakalelo zakho kuye kwaye kufuneka ulahle uthando lwakho.
Sivuyisana ngokuphupha ngalo mntu, unokwenza isibini esiqinileyo, isibini esiya kuvuya ngokwenene!
othandana nelungu losapho
Oku ngokungathandabuzekiyo iphupha elingaqhelekanga kwaye ngethamsanqa ayithethi ukuba uya kuthandana nalo uqhelekileyo!
Ibonisa ukuba eli lungu losapho ophupha ngalo linobudlelwane olomeleleyo kuwe, hayi iqhina lothando, kodwa lothando losapho, ubuhlobo kunye nomanyano lokwenyani.
Unomhlobo apho ngayo yonke into oyifunayo.
Uphinde uzive uqhagamshelene kakhulu nalomntu ingathi ngoobhuti.
Mxabise lo mntu, thetha naye ngakumbi, uchithe amaxesha amnandi kunye, uya kubona ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuba ngcono ukusuka ngalo mzuzu!
Ngaba ubudlelwane bam bunokuba semngciphekweni?
Abantu abaninzi bacele ukuba ubudlelwane babo bube semngciphekweni ngenxa yokuphupha ukuba bayathandana.
Kuxhomekeke kuwe nje!
Ngaba uziva wonwabile ecaleni kothando lwakho? Ngaba uziva waneliseke ngokupheleleyo kwaye waneliseke? Ukuba impendulo nguewe, akufanele ukhathazeke kuba yayiliphupha lonke, inkohliso encinci.
Ukuba awuziva wanelisekile, ungaziva uphelele ecaleni kothando lwakho, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ubudlelwane bakho sele bunike oko bekufuneka bunike.
Amanye amaphupha:
- phupha imango evuthiweyo
- phupha malunga nenyoka e-orenji
- Kuthetha ntoni ukuphupha ngenyoka eluhlaza kuthetha?
phupha ukuba uyajola nomntu liphupha elixhaphake kakhulu kwaye lidla ngokubonakala kubafazi, kodwa linokuvela nakumadoda, nangona lingaphantsi rhoqo.
Intsingiselo yayo isoloko ifana kubo bonke abantu ngoko ke umntu kufuneka akhokelwe yingcaciso enikwe ngasentla.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unokungabaza, unokuphawula ngeli nqaku nangaliphi na ixesha, siya kucacisa onke amathandabuzo akho!