Ngaba ukhangela eyona inamandla Umthandazo kaSt Cyprian wokugxotha iintshaba ebomini bakho ngokukhawuleza nangendlela eqinisekileyo?
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Imithandazo yethu yahlukile kwaye uninzi lwayo luthatyathwe kwiincwadi ezingcwele ezinamawaka eminyaka ubudala.
Siyakucela kuphela ukuba usebenzise amandla abo kwaye uwasebenzise kuphela ukuba ufuna ngokwenene, ngakumbi imithandazo yobubi.
Ngaba uMthandazo kaSt Cyprian wokugcina iintshaba zikude?
I-Saint Cyprian inceda abantu abaninzi ngokulungileyo, njengokuhlanganisa abantu ababini ngothando, kodwa inyaniso kukuba uyanceda "ebubini".
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Lo Mthandazo waseSt. Cyprian ukugcina iintshaba zikude zisebenza ngokwenene, kwaye ungayenza ngaphandle kwengxaki kuba ayikuko ngokugxotha abantu ababini ukuba ubafunele ububi.
Ungayisebenzisa ukugxotha iintshaba ebomini bakho ezikwenza kakubi, ukugxotha umfazi endodeni yakho okanye impembelelo embi ebomini bomntwana wakho.
Uza kubakhupha nje abantu ebomini bakho ukuze bangakwenzakalisi.
Ayizokubakhathaza, vele ubatyhale, yenze le mithandazo ngaphandle koloyiko.
Umthandazo weSaint Cyprian ukugxotha iintshaba
Lo mthandazo uya kusebenza ukugxotha iintshaba ebomini bakho.
Umntu ozama ukukwenzakalisa, njengokukuthakatha nokwenza iimacumba, okanye ukukunika inkangeleko embi nokubamonela.
Lo mthandazo kufuneka uthandazelwe ngulo mntu uchaphazelekayo kwaye ufuna iintshaba ziphume ebomini bakhe.
Ukuba ukhangela umthandazo oza kuwuthetha komnye umntu, ungawufunda kanye ngezantsi kweli nqaku, kwakweli nqaku.
Ungawuthandaza lo mthandazo waseSaint Cyprian ukuba uthintele iintshaba ngalo naliphi na inqanaba lenyanga nangaluphi na usuku lweveki.
Ndicela amandla eSaint Cyprian ukuba andincede ekucoceni umzimba wam nomphefumlo wam olungileyo.
Mna, Xela igama lakho elipheleleyo, ndifuna ukucela uncedo kuSaint Cyprian ukususa zonke iintshaba ebomini bam.
Ukubagxotha bonke aba bantu bandifuna kakubi nabafuna ukundibona ndiphuma kulo mhlaba.
Mna, Xela igama lakho elipheleleyo, Ndifuna ukucela uncedo olunamandla lweSaint Cyprian lokuzikhwebula kum yonke imiphefumlo engendawo kunye nabo bonke abantu abafuna mna kuphela okubi.
Ngcwele uCyprian, susa kum bonke ububi obuzama ukuwela phezu kwam.
Gcina kude kum onke amandla angalunganga, onke amehlo atyebileyo, wonke umona, bonke ububi kunye nabo bonke ubugqwirha abazama ukukwenza ngokuchasene nam.
Zisuse zonke iintshaba zam ebomini bam, zingaphindi zindenzakalisa.
Ndikhusele kuzo zonke kwaye uphelise unxibelelwano lwethu ngokukhawuleza.
Ndifuna uxolo qha ndifuna ukuthula qha ndifuna ukonwaba ndingasokoli ngokungeyomfuneko.
Ndiyazi ukuba ngoncedo lwe-Saint Cyprian ndiya kukwazi ukususa zonke iintshaba zam kunye nabo bonke abantu abandifuna kakubi.
Ndiyabulela ngokuva imithandazo yam nangokundinceda.
Ukuba ufuna umthandazo waseSaint Cyprian wokuthintela iintshaba kubomi bomntu, nokuba uqhelekile okanye awuqhelanga, ungawubona lo mthandazo ubekwe ngezantsi.
Umthandazo wokugxotha iintshaba zikaCyprian (emntwini)
Ngaba uyafuna ukugxotha iintshaba zomntu omaziyo?
Isenokuba ziintshaba zomyeni wakho, iintshaba zomntwana wakho okanye abantu nje abafuna ukwenzakalisa umhlobo wakho.
Uya kufuna kuphela igama lomhlobo ukuze ukwazi ukwenza lo mthandazo unamandla.
Unokuyithandaza nakwesiphi na isigaba senyanga nangaluphi na usuku evekini.
Owu uCyprian onamandla amakhulu, andithandazeli mna kodwa ndithandazela umhlobo/umyeni/unyana wam, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba uya kunika ukubaluleka okufanayo kwesi sicelo sibalulekileyo.
Ndifuna unceda uZibani-bani ebomini bakhe obungahambi kakuhle ngenxa yobukho babantu abakhohlakeleyo ebomini bakhe.
Ndifuna ukuba uncede uZibani-bani akhuphe zonke iintshaba zakhe eziqhubeka zikhula neziqhubeka zihlasela umhla nezolo, umzuzu emva komzuzu, okwesibini emva kwesibini.
Zikhwebuleni kuZibani-bani bonke abo bantu bamnqwenelela ingozi kuphela nabafuna ukonakalisa ubomi bakhe.
Isusa ku-So-and-so onke amandla angalunganga azama ukumchaphazela, ahlambulule umzimba wakhe kunye ne-aura yakhe kwaye enze ukukhutshwa okupheleleyo kumzimba.
Zigcine kude kuye wonke umona, onke amakhubalo, onke amacumba nayo yonke into ewonakalisa ubomi bakho.
Ndiyazi ukuba ndingathembela kuncedo lukaSomandla oNgcwele waseCyprian ukuba akhwelise kuSibanibani-ke bonke abo bantu bangakufuniyo okulungileyo.
Ndiyazi ukuba uya kundinceda kwaye ndiyabulela ngoncedo lwakho oluxabisekileyo, egameni lam egameni lomhlobo wam/umyeni/unyana.
Ungalibali nje ukufaka igama elipheleleyo lomntu endaweni ka "Zibani-bani".
Ukuba awunalo igama elipheleleyo, inokuba ngowokuqala kunye nokugqibela.
Kulo mthandazo kubalulekile ukuba umntu abe nohlobo oluthile lokunxibelelana nawe ukuze iSaint Cyprian isebenze ngolu nxibelelwano lwakho.
Ngaba umthandazo kaSaint Cyprian wokugxotha iintshaba unazo naziphi na izinto ezichaseneyo?
Ngethamsanqa oku umthandazo weSaint Cyprian ukugxotha iintshaba okanye abo bakhuphisana nabo ayinalo naluphi na uhlobo lwe-contraindications kwaye inokwenziwa ngaphezu komntu omnye.
Nabani na othandazayo akayi kwenzakaliswa nangayiphi na indlela, kwaye ukuba uthandazela umntu (umntwana okanye umntwana) akayi kuchaphazeleka.
Ngokubhekiselele kwiintshaba, ziyakusuka zihambe ngokwemvelo, umhla nezolo, ngakumbi nangakumbi… Bade baphele bengaboni kwaye bathethe omnye nomnye ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba le mithandazo ayonelanga, ndiyakumema ukuba wenze oku kunamandla Umthandazo weNenekazi lethu laseDesterro kunye umthandazo kaSaint Cyprian wokwahlula isibini.
Ithamsanqa kulo mthandazo wakho, yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle ebomini bakho nakubomi babo ubathanda kakhulu.