Uyazi Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umvundla omhlophe, ngwevu, omnyama, omdaka okanye ofileyo?
Yazi kwangoko ukuba onke amaphupha ethu anentsingiselo.
Kule meko, le ntsingiselo isoloko ilungile kwaye inxulunyaniswa namathuba obomi kunye namashwa esinokuba nawo.
Tolika zonke zethu amaphupha ibaluleke gqitha, njengoko eminye yayo isinika izigidimi ezibalulekileyo ngoko kunokwenzeka kwikamva lethu.
Umvundla ephupheni unokubonakala ungabalulekanga, ngakumbi ukuba umhlophe, kodwa inyaniso kukuba inxulunyaniswa nento enhle kakhulu ekufuneka uyazi ukuba yintoni!
Ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, khangela intsingiselo yephupha lakho ngezantsi.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umvundla omhlophe
Ukuphupha umvundla omhlophe kuhambelana namathuba yobomi.
Kule meko, amathuba obomi obuya kukunika wona kwaye kufuneka uwasebenzise kuba aya kuyiphucula indlela ophila ngayo.
Ukuphupha umvundla omhlophe kuzalana kakhulu kuba asinakuqiniseka ukuba ngawaphi la mathuba.
Into ebalulekileyo ukuyikhumbula kukuba Ukusukela ngoku, ubomi buya kuzalisa ngamathuba.
Zinokunxulumana nomsebenzi, uthando, imali, impilo okanye ishishini.
Eli phupha lithetha ukuba amathuba aya kuba mahle kwaye kufuneka uwamkele.
Ukususela ngoku, ukuba ubona ithuba, cinga ngenyameko ngaphambi kokuba ulishiye ngasemva.
Eli phupha lizama ukukulumkisa ukuba uthabathe ithuba, kufuneka ulibeke emngciphekweni kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela.
Iphupha lokutyisa umvundla omhlophe
Ukuba usandul’ ukuphupha ukuba wondla umvundla omhle omhlophe kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke ukondla kwaye ukholelwa kumaphupha akho.
Umbala omhlophe emaphupheni usoloko uluphawu oluhle.
Nakule meko kunjalo.
Kuthetha ukuba amaphupha akho aya kuzaliseka, ukuba uqhubeka usebenzela kuwo ngendlela obusoloko usebenza ngayo.
Sukuncama ezinye zazo kuba zibonakala zinzima kakhulu kwaye zikude kakhulu.
Qhubeka usebenza yonke imihla, qhubeka ukholelwa kwaye uqhubeke ubenza basebenze.
Ukuphupha umvundla omhlophe, oko kukuthi uyawondla, kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke ukondla onke amaphupha akho kuba ngenye imini uya kuwuhlawula wonke umsebenzi.
iphupha umvundla ezingwevu
Ngelishwa, umvundla ongwevu awusoloko uthetha okulungileyo...
Kule meko, kuthetha ukuba uya kudlula ngamanye amaxesha amnandi kakhulu ebomini bakho kwaye oku kuya kuchaphazela ubuntu bakho.
La maxesha anokunxulunyaniswa nezinto ezininzi, kodwa ungoyiki okwangoku!
Ukuphupha umvundla ongwevu akulunganga ncam kwaye akukho nto ichaphazela ubuntu bakho.
Ubomi busifundisa ukuba somelele, silwe ngakumbi kwaye sibe nzima kuthi kwaye kule meko eli phupha lithetha ukuba lo mzuzu umbi oya kuhamba kuwo uya kukwenza ube ngumntu onamandla.
Kuyinyaniso ukuba uya kubandezeleka kancinane kwesi siganeko, kodwa sesinye imfundiso yobomi.
Akukho nto unokuyenza ukunqanda eli phupha, kufuneka ulinde kwaye ujongane nawo onke amaxesha amabi ngamandla akho onke.
Ukuba awuyazi ukuba umvundla wawungwevu okanye umnyama, funda le ngongoma ingezantsi...
phupha ngomvundla omnyama
Uninzi lwabantu lubhidanisa abamnyama kunye nengwevu kwaye ngokuphambeneyo kubalulekile ukwazi intsingiselo yezi zimbini.
Ngelishwa, akukho mvundla ongwevu okanye omnyama unentsingiselo entle.
Nangona i-grey idibaniswa nomzuzu ombi, umnyama udibaniswa ne abantu ababi abaya kubonakala ebomini bakho.
Kule meko kuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ukubonakala kwabantu abaza kuzama ukuphazamisa ubomi bakho kakubi.
Aba bantu inokuba ngabahlobo bakho, amalungu osapho lwakho okanye abantu osebenza nabo.
Ungakhathazeki, azinakukwenzakalisa ngokwasemzimbeni, ziya kuzama nje ukwenzakalisa ubomi bakho ngokuhleba okungafunwayo.
Nikela ingqalelo ekubeni ngubani oxelela ubomi bakho kunye nomntu omthembayo kwiincoko zakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha abahlobo bethu abasenyongweni nabo baziintshaba zethu ezinkulu.
Phupha ngomvundla omdaka
Umvundla omdaka unxulunyaniswa nothando, ngoko ukuphupha imivundla emdaka kuthetha indlela yothando olukhulu!
Makhe silichaze eli phupha ngokweenxalenye njengoko lineentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kubantu abazinikeleyo nabangatshatanga.
Ukuba uzibophelele, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho umangaliso olukhulu endleleni kubomi bakho bothando.
Lo mmangaliso uya kwenziwa luthando lwakho kwaye uya kukwenza wonwabe ngendlela emangalisayo.
Uninzi lwabantu abazinikeleyo abanalo eli phupha bacelwa ukuba batshate, bafumane izipho okanye izibhengezo ezinkulu zothando.
Ukuba awutshatanga kuthetha ukuba uya kudibana nothando olukhulu kungekudala.
Isenokuba ngumntu osele uthetha naye okanye inokuba ngumntu ongena ebomini bakho kwakamsinyane.
Into eqinisekileyo kukuba lo mntu uya kukwazi ukuyizuza intliziyo yakho kwaye uya kukwazi ukuyizuza intliziyo yaloo mntu.
Ukuphupha umvundla omdaka uhlala uphawu oluhle kwaye uhlala uhambelana nothando.
Zilungiselele utshintsho oluza kubonakala kubomi bakho bothando!
Phupha ngemivundla efileyo
Ngethamsanqa, umvundla ofileyo ephupheni akuthethi ukuba kuya kubakho ukufa okanye izifo ezinzulu ebomini bakho okanye kubomi babahlobo bakho kunye nosapho.
Enyanisweni, ukuphupha umvundla ofileyo kuhambelana neenguqu eziza kubonakala ebomini bakho.
Olu tshintsho luya kuba luhle kwaye luya kukwenza wena nosapho lwakho nonwabe kakhulu.
Akunakwenzeka ukumisela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba olu tshintsho luya kuba yintoni, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo luhambelana nokutshintsha komsebenzi, indlela yokuphila, isikolo (kwimeko yabafundi) okanye ubomi bomntu.
Isenokunxulunyaniswa nengxaki oyoyisayo, njengokufumana ilayisenisi yakho yokuqhuba okanye ukwenza izifundo zokufunda.
Ekuphela kwento esinokuyithetha kukuba olu tshintsho luya kuba luhle kwaye luyakwenza wonwabe.
Unyawo lomvundla iphupha
Eli phupha lelinye laziwa kakhulu kwaye injalo nentsingiselo yalo.
Awuzange uve ukuba unyawo lomvundla okanye inzipho luphawu lwethamsanqa?
Izizwe ezininzi zamandulo zide zinxibe unyawo lomvundla entanyeni njengekhubalo lokuzisa ithamsanqa kubo nosapho lwabo.
Ungajonga phambili kwixesha lethamsanqa ebomini bakho ngendlela ongazange ubenayo ngaphambili.
Eli thamsanqa linokunxulumana nezinto ezininzi ebomini bakho, njengempilo, imali kunye nothando.
Ukuba ubunalo eli phupha ngaphezu kwexesha elinye, nokuba ngcono, luphawu lwethamsanqa ngenene.
Phupha ngamantshontsho emivundla
Iintsana zemivundla zimela into enye kuphela ephupheni...
Ukuchuma, ukuzala okuninzi kunye nokuzalwa okutsha kungekudala.
Ngokusisiseko imele ukuzalwa kwelungu elitsha entsatsheni.
Eli lungu linokuba kufutshane nawe okanye likude, eyona nto sinokukuxelela yona kukuba kuya kuba ngaphakathi kosapho lwakho.
Ukuba uzama ukukhulelwa okanye ukuba kukho umntu omaziyo ozama ukukhulelwa, amathuba okuba ukwazile ukuphumeza iinjongo zakho.
Ukuba kunjalo, qhuba uvavanyo lokukhulelwa!
Phupha ngemivundla edlalayo
Ukuphupha umvundla omhlophe udlala, okanye nawuphi na omnye umbala, kuthetha amaxesha amnandi oya kuba nawo kwixesha elizayo.
La maxesha amnandi aya kuchithwa kunye nosapho kunye nobukho babona bantu babalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Eli liphupha elilunge kakhulu kwaye lilungile ukuba nalo kwaye libonakala kuphela kubantu abanobudlelwane bosapho olomeleleyo.
Ukuba awukhange uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye namalungu osapho lwakho, ungakhathazeki kuba awona mathuba angcono aya kuvela kungekudala.
Amanye amaphupha:
Njengoko usenokuba sele uqaphele phupha ngomvundla umhlophe, omnyama, ngwevu okanye omnye umbala awusoloko unentsingiselo efanayo.
Kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba uchonge ukuba lalinjani iphupha lakho kwaye ufunde ukuba yayiyintoni na eyona ntsingiselo yalo.
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