Ukufumana intsingiselo yamanye amaphupha akulula. Kutshanje sifumene i-imeyile ebuza ukuba yintoni intsingiselo ukuphupha umntu osele eswelekile kwaye ephupheni uyaphila kwaye sagqiba ekubeni sibhale eli nqaku ukuphendula loo mbuzo.
Eli phupha lixhaphake kakhulu, kodwa inyaniso kukuba kukho ulwazi oluncinci malunga nalo kwi-Intanethi.
Ukufumana intsingiselo yalo kwakungelula, kodwa emva kokuqokelela ulwazi kobunye ubungqina safumana eyona ntsingiselo ichanileyo yeli phupha.
Kweli nqaku ukusuka MysticBr siza kukubonisa oku kunye nendlela yokuphelisa la maphupha amabi, ukuba awukuthandi kunjalo.
Ulungele ukumangaliswa?
Kuba siphupha phantse ubusuku ngabunye
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuchaza ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umntu ofileyo kwaye ephila ephupheni, makhe sichaze ukuba kutheni uhlala uphupha ngale nto kunye nezinye izinto.
Amaphupha ayenzeka ngenxa yeengcamango zethu, okanye kunoko, inxalenye yazo.
Ukuba usoloko ucinga ngento enye ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ekugqibeleni uphuphe ngayo.
Le yithiyori yokuqala, kodwa kukho enye…
Kukho abo bathi abafileyo basebenzisa amaphupha ukuzama ukunxibelelana nathi, ukuthetha, ukubalisa kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukukukhumbula.
Inyaniso yeyokuba uninzi lweengxelo ebesinazo bezithetha loo nto, kwaye uyakholelwa koko?
Ukuphupha umntu oswelekileyo kwaye ephupheni uyaphila
Sele siyinike le mpendulo ngaphambili, kodwa siya kuyicacisa ngakumbi.
Abafileyo maxa wambi basebenzisa amaphupha ukuze banxibelelane nathi njengoko ikuphela kwendlela yokwenjenjalo.
Ngokwezifundo zethu, ukuphupha umntu obhubhileyo ephila ephupheni kuthetha ukuba awukakwamkeli ukuphulukana naloo mntu kwaye intloko yakho iqhubeke icinga ngaye umhla nezolo.
Oku kuthetha ukuba kukho iqhina elikhulu phakathi kwakho nalo mntu kwaye olo manyano alusoze lwaphulwe.
Olu nxibelelwano lunokuba luhle okanye lube lubi, kwaye kuxhomekeke kulo, lunokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo.
Ubumthanda lomntu?
Ukuba ubumthanda lo mntu, inyaniso kukuba ukhumbula ixesha lakho kakhulu.
Ukucinga ukuba loo mntu uphila entlokweni yakho ayikho enye into kwaye akukho nto ingaphantsi kombono olula weyona nto uyinqwenelayo.
Umfuna ephila lomntu uthetha nawe so uyaphupha ngoba yinto oyifuna kakhulu.
Akakwazanga ukoyisa oko kufa kwaye ndiyathandabuza kakhulu ukuba uya kukwazi ukoyisa.
Amaphupha alungile ngokuphoswa, ukuziva usondelelene kunye nokwenza eyona nto siyinqwenela kakhulu, yile nto yenzekayo.
Ngoku ukuba awumthandi umntu ombona emaphupheni akho ingathetha into eyahlukileyo...
Ubungamthandi lo mntu?
Ukuba ubungamthandi umntu othethe naye ephupheni oko kuthetha into enye kuphela... Uloyiko!
Ubusoloko umoyika lomntu kwaye emva kokufa kwakhe uqhubeka usoyika ukuba uya kuhlasela enze ubomi bakho bube sisihogo.
Loo mntu wafa, kodwa akazange athabathe iinkumbulo kunye nabo.
Ishiye iinkumbulo ebantwini kwaye yaphawula abantu abaninzi, kuquka nawe.
Ukuba ukhumbula incoko oye waba nayo nomntu ngexesha lokuphupha, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ukhumbule amagama angaphantsi okanye iingxoxo ezinkulu.
Kukho neethiyori ezithi ukuphupha umntu osele eswelekile ephila ephupheni, loo mntu lutshaba lwakho, kuthetha inguquko macala omabini.
Ukuba loo mntu ebengakuphathanga kakuhle ephupheni yaye ebethetha ngokuqhelekileyo kuwe, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyaxolisa.
Le nguquko iza kuwe nakumntu ongasekhoyo phakathi kwethu.
Phupha uwola umntu oswelekileyo
Sisenenye intsingiselo. Apha ubuwole lamntu. Njengoko unokulindela, intsingiselo iya kuxhomekeka ekubeni uyamthanda na loo mntu mnye.
Ukuba uyamthanda umntu: Kuthetha ukuba benizonwabisa kunye emhlabeni yaye ubuhlobo benu buya kuhlala buhleli. Ukongezelela, usabonisa i-nostalgia enkulu kunye nomnqweno wokubona loo mntu kwakhona.
Iphupha lingaphinda libonise isizungu ebomini bomntu (ophuphayo) kunye nomnqweno wokudibana nomntu.
Ukuba awumthandi umntu: Wabona ukuba akuncedi nto ukulwa naloo mntu. Ngethamsanqa, akukabikho kade ukuyiqonda le nto.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uqaphele oku kwaye ngoku uzama ukwenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo nabanye abantu.
Ukuphupha umntu osele efile kwaye ephupheni uphila eJogo do Bicho
Siye sabona abafundi abaninzi besicela uqikelelo kunye namanani ethamsanqa kule midlalo. Sikholelwa ukuba amaphupha amaninzi angabonisa amaxesha amashwa kunye namashwa, kodwa oku akusiyo enye yazo.
Ngelishwa, ukuphupha ngabantu abafileyo okanye abasele befile akudityaniswanga naziphi na iimpawu zethamsanqa okanye amashwa.
Ngoko ke asinakuqikelela okanye amanani esinokukunika wona. Sincoma ukuba ujonge ezinye iimpawu ezivela kwindalo yonke okanye kwihlabathi eliyimfihlakalo ngale njongo.
Indlela yokumisa la maphupha
Ngaba udiniwe kukuphupha umntu osele eswelekile ephila ephupheni?
Sinesisombululo esihle kakhulu sokuphelisa oku.
Kukho amaphupha amabi angaphumi entloko kwaye asazi ukuba masenze ntoni.
Ekubeni kuyimeko enzima ukuyilawula, abantu baphela beyamkela kwaye bafunde ukuhlala nayo, kodwa bayazi ukuba kukho enye indlela.
Sicebisa ukuba abafundi bethu bathandaze kuye umthandazo wokuzolisa intliziyo Okanye Umthandazo weNenekazi lethu laseDesterro ngaphambi kokulala.
Thandaza ubusuku ngabunye, lo mthandazo uyakukuncoma kwaye uzole intliziyo yakho.
Kwakhona kuya kususa kuwe onke amandla amabi aqokelelwe kuwe, kukwenza ukwazi ukulala ebusuku.
Kwaye ke, sele uyazi ukuba yintoni na amaphupha intsingiselo?
Siyathemba ukuba uye wacacisa onke amathandabuzo malunga nokuphupha ngomntu ofileyo kwaye ephupheni uphila.
Ukuba unayo nayiphi na imibuzo enxulumene nento, unganqikazi ukuqhagamshelana neqela lethu, siya kukuvuyela ukukunceda ngaphandle kweendleko!
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