Amaphupha ethu anokuba neentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kwaye anokuba luphawu lwesilumkiso ngempazamo ethile oyenzayo. Abantu abaninzi basicela ukuba sibacacisele Intsingiselo yokuphupha uthetha nomntu oswelekileyo kwaye eli nqaku liza kunikezelwa kuloo nto.
Makhe sikubonise intsingiselo yokuphupha ngomntu ofileyo, nokuba ngumhlobo, isihlobo esifileyo okanye isihlobo esisondeleyo kakhulu.
Siza kuchaza into omele uyigcine kweli phupha kwaye ukuba kufuneka unike ukubaluleka okanye ukuba kufuneka uzame ukulibala malunga nale nxalenye embi yobomi bakho.
Zilungiselele kuba eli linqaku elinamandla, phupha ngokuba ngubani oswelekileyo Ihlala iluphawu lwento embi kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uyazi intsingiselo yephupha ngalinye ukwazi indlela yokuzikhusela kwaye ungaqhubeki usenza iimpazamo.
Ukuphupha uthetha nomntu oswelekileyo
Phambi kokuba ndiqale ndithi kutheni uphuphe kwaye kuthetha ntoni, kubalulekile ukwenza abanye abantu ngokwakho.
Ngaba lo mntu ibingumhlobo wakho, utshaba, isizalwane okanye ilungu losapho olusondele kakhulu kuwe?
Masiqhubeke siyicacisa ngokweenxalenye.
Ukuba uphupha uthetha nomntu oswelekileyo owayengumhlobo wakho wokwenene/ilungu losapho lwakho okanye umntu okuthandayo, oko kuthetha nje ukuba uyabukhumbula ubukho kunye neencoko zaloo mntu.
Amaphupha yindlela ingqondo yethu efumanisa ukuba ikwazi ukuphila oko akusenakwenzeka ukuba uphile kwaye kulo mzekelo uyamkhumbula loo mntu, iincoko zabo, amava akhe kunye nobukho bakhe.
Ngoku khawufane ucinge ukuba uphupha uthetha nomntu ongamthandiyo okanye ongakuthandiyo...
Kule meko intsingiselo ingaba mbi kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka xa umntu ombi ezama ukudlulisela into embi kuwe.
Isenokuba yinto embi eyenzekayo ebomini bakho okanye into embi enokwenzeka..
Ayiqhelekanga ukunxulumana nokufa okanye nantoni na elolo hlobo ke ungakhathazeki.
Sisilumkiso nje sento embi eyenzekileyo okanye eza kwenzeka.
Ngaba ukhe waphupha umntu osele efile, enomfanekiso wakho kuphela? Jonga ngezantsi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini!
Ukuphupha umntu oswelekileyo (engakhange athethe)
Ngaba unomkhuba wokuphupha ngomntu oswelekileyo?
Kule meko ingasentla uphuphe umfi kwaye wathetha nawe, kodwa kukho iimeko apho abafileyo abathethi nje.
Le ntsingiselo yeyabo bantu babona umfi kuphela, kuphela ilungu lomzimba okanye umzimba wonke kwaye akukho nto.
Njengoko kulo mzekelo ungasentla, intsingiselo yawo iya kuxhomekeka kumfi.
Ngaba wayengumhlobo okanye utshaba lwakho?
Ukuba ebengumhlobo wakho, ungaphumla... Ngokuqhelekileyo abafileyo bazama ukunxibelelana nabaphilayo ngamaphupha, ukuba ubona nje umfi kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba bakhumbula ikhaya nje, kwicala lakho kunye necala lakhe.
Ukuphupha kusivumela ukuba singene kwelinye ilizwe kwaye yenye yezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokunxibelelana nomntu ongasekhoyo esimthanda kakhulu.
Ukuba wayelutshaba lwakho, isenokuba luphawu lwesilumkiso, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo iba kukukoyikisa.
Uyabazi abo bantu bathi naxa sele befile bangasishiyi?
Ewe, ukuphupha umntu osele eswelekile kusenokuba luloyiko nje olushunyayelwa ngumfi, akukuchaphazeli, usuka woyike wothuke.
Ukuba akanxibelelananga nawe, akukho bungozi.
Ukuphupha umntu osweleke emncinci kakhulu
Zimbalwa ii-portals ezingaqondakaliyo zihlala zichaza intsingiselo yokwenyani yokuphupha abafileyo mayibe ntsha...
Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba usondele kumntu oselula, umntwana okanye usana oluye lwafa ngolu hlobo, lungakhange luphile ubomi obupheleleyo bolonwabo.
Ungazihluphi kuba ukuphupha umntu osweleke esemncinane kuthetha nje ukuba lo mntu uhleli kwi-subconscious yakho, uhlukumezekile sisiganeko mhlawumbi ngenxa yeminyaka yakho, kwaye awukakwazi ukumlibala loo mntu.
Ukusweleka kwabantu abatsha kuhlala kusimangaliso esingathandekiyo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha ixesha elide ukuphuma kwiintloko zethu.
Zama ukuphumla kwaye uqhubeke nobomi bakho, baye kwindawo engcono apho baya kukhathalelwa kwaye basikelelwe.
Sukuma apha!
Sinenye intsingiselo enika umdla apha ngezantsi… ndibheja ukuba uya kufuna ukuyibona!
phupha ngabantu abafileyo
Unomkhuba wokuphupha ngabantu abafileyo kwaye awuyazi ukuba ithetha ukuthini?
Ngethamsanqa sikuphathele iindaba ezimnandi njengoko le yenye yezona mpawu zibalaseleyo onokuzifumana!
Isenokubonakala ingaqhelekanga kwaye ibubuxoki, kodwa inyaniso kukuba intsingiselo yokuphupha ngabantu abafileyo intle kakhulu.
Ukuba oku kwenzeka kuwe, luphawu lokuba kukho into enhle eya kwenzeka ebomini bakho, into eya kuphucula kwaye into iya kutshintsha ibe ngcono.
Olu phuculo luya kukwenza wonwabe kwaye wonwabe ngakumbi kwaye luya kwenza bonke abantu abafileyo ophupha ngabo.
Zilungiselele kuba izinto ezintle ziyeza, ngakumbi ukuba eli liphupha eliphindaphindiweyo.
Kuyacaca ukuba unokoyika ebuthongweni bakho kwaye uvuke ngesiqalo, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ubomi bakho abuyi kuthatha ixesha elide ukuphucula ubusuku.
Abantu abaninzi bayesaba ukuba eli phupha libi kwaye bavame ukwenza ukuhlamba, imithandazo kunye nomlingo ukuzama ukukhupha obu bubi, kodwa ungakhathazeki!
Ukuphupha umhlobo oswelekileyo
Ukuphulukana nomhlobo yenye yezinto ezimbi ezinokusehlela.
Ubukho bayo buyanyamalala kwaye kuba nzima kakhulu ukuphila nokungabikho kwayo ngexesha lokuphila kwethu.
Okokuqala, kufuneka ucinge ukuba ngoku unikelwe kuThixo kwaye ikwindawo engcono.
Kwaye emva koko usenokukwazi ukutolika ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngomhlobo oswelekileyo.
Ngaba unomkhuba wokuphupha uthetha nomntu ongasekhoyo abe ngumhlobo wakho lowo?
Okanye uphuphe nje ngomfanekiso wakho?
Nokuba liliphi iphupha linentsingiselo enye...
Ucinga ngalomntu kakhulu kwaye unexhala ngawe.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abafileyo bafuna ukunxibelelana nabo babathandayo ngamaphupha kwaye lo ngumzekelo woko.
Umhlobo wakho ufuna ukukuxelela ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle naye.
Ufuna ukubonisa ukuba ukufa kwakhe bekusisigaba nje sobomi bakhe kwaye ngoku ukwindawo engcono kwaye akufuneki uchithe ubomi bakho bonke ucinga ngaye kuba uphilile.
Phumla, yeka ukucinga ngomhlobo wakho ukuba amaphupha aya kunyamalala.
Kodwa ngaba wakha wacinga ngokuphupha ngokungathi loo mntu uyaphila? Sicacisa ngezantsi...
Ukuphupha ngabantu abaswelekileyo ngokungathi bayaphila
Ukuphupha ngomntu ofileyo kunokothusa, kodwa ukuphupha abantu abasele bebhubhile ngathi bayaphila kunokoyikisa ngakumbi.
Ngethamsanqa kuwe, akusiyo iflegi ebomvu.
Kwaye ngaphantsi kakhulu uphawu lokuba kukho into embi eza kwenzeka kuwe okanye kuloo mntu.
Okuphikisanayo!
Ukuphupha abantu abasele bebhubhile ngokungathi basaphila kuthetha ukuba kukho into entle eza kwenzeka ebomini bakho.
Isenokuba yinto elula efana nokufumana i-10 yeedola okanye inokuba yinto entle njengokunyuselwa umvuzo omkhulu.
Okanye ukuba akunamsebenzi, oko kusenokuthetha ukuba uza kukwazi ukuwufumana kungekudala!
Ukuba ufumana ubunzima kwaye ufuna inhlanhla encinci, kunokwenzeka ukuba unayo kuba olu hlobo lwamaphupha lutsala kuphela izinto ezilungileyo kunye nezinto ezintle!
Ukuphupha ngomntu oswelekileyo ethetha nawe
Le ntsingiselo iyafana naleyo yokuqala ichazwayo, yokuphupha uthetha nomntu ofileyo.
Njengoko kumzekelo ongasentla kuya kuxhomekeka kwinto enye kuphela...
Ngaba lo mntu wayeyitshomi yakho okanye yayilutshaba lwakho olu?
Ukuba loo mntu ngumhlobo wakho, njengomhlobo osenyongweni, utata, umama, umntakwenu, okanye olunye uhlobo lwelungu lentsapho, kusenokuthetha ukuba uyakukhumbula kwaye nalomntu uyakukhumbula.
Usebenzisa amaphupha ukubulala zonke ezo zilangazelelo kwaye abantu obathandayo abangasekhoyo benza okufanayo.
Musa ukoyika ukuphupha umntu ofileyo ethetha nawe ukuba basondelelene kunye nabahlobo.
Iincoko zabo emaphupheni zisebenza ukuzama ukuvala lonke ixesha abaphulukana nalo ngalo lonke ixesha bengekho ecaleni komnye.
Ngoku masiye kwintshaba... Ukuphupha umntu ofileyo ethetha nawe kungaba kubi ukuba lo mntu umbi...
Ukuba kunjalo, kusenokuthetha iingxaki, kusenokuthetha ukuba ubomi bakho abuhambi kakuhle yaye kuza kwenzeka into embi kubo ongayi kuyithanda.
Inokugxothwa okanye inokugqabhuka nje itayara.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, musa ukuba nexhala kuba ayithethi ukufa, okanye ukufa kwakho okanye ukufa komhlobo, ilungu losapho okanye umntu omaziyo.
Phupha ngomyeni osele eswelekile
Kukho iinkcazo ezimbalwa ezithembekileyo kwi-intanethi malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha umyeni oswelekileyo.
Sahlalutya inqwaba yobungqina saza safikelela kwisigqibo sokuba amaxesha amaninzi olu luphawu olusisilumkiso, enoba lusenza into entle okanye embi.
Enye yeengxelo esizifumeneyo zezi:
"Ndiphuphe ngomyeni wam owasweleka kunyaka o-1 odlulileyo, wacela ukuthetha nam, ephupheni ndandingafuni ukuva, emva koko ndaphupha ngengozi ..."
Xa iphupha lingahoywa kwaye ungafuni ukuthetha nomntu, lenza elinye iphupha lidlule entloko yakho kwaye kwelo phupha libonisa umyalezo walo.
Ukuba uphupha umyeni osele eswelekile kwaye emva koko awunawo nawaphi na amaphupha nawo nawuphi na umyalezo, ungakhathazeki kuba akusiyo isilumkiso.
Ukuba unamava okuphupha ngomyeni ofileyo kwaye emva kwelo phupha malunga nesiganeko esithile, kungcono ukuba uqaphele, ingaba yinto enhle okanye embi.
Siqala ngokucacisa ukuba lithetha ukuthini phupha uthetha nomntu oswelekileyo kwaye sagqiba ukukuxelela ezinye iintsingiselo ezininzi, ezifana phupha ngokuba ngubani oswelekileyo!
Ngapha koko, kusekho eminye imizekelo yeentsingiselo, siyazi ezininzi ngakumbi, ukuba unayo nayiphi na ingcebiso okanye ingxelo yephupha ongayazi intsingiselo, zive ukhululekile ukuphawula kweli nqaku.
Iziqulatho
- 1 Ukuphupha uthetha nomntu oswelekileyo
- 2 Ukuphupha umntu oswelekileyo (engakhange athethe)
- 3 Ukuphupha umntu osweleke emncinci kakhulu
- 4 phupha ngabantu abafileyo
- 5 Ukuphupha umhlobo oswelekileyo
- 6 Ukuphupha ngabantu abaswelekileyo ngokungathi bayaphila
- 7 Ukuphupha ngomntu oswelekileyo ethetha nawe
- 8 Phupha ngomyeni osele eswelekile